Memorial Day, 2006

Dear Family and Friends,

A Mini-Novel in Three Parts
(They tie together, read all three!!)
1. Journey to Houston
2. A wedding celebration
3. Watching the bluebirds fly

Chapter 1
Dusk falls heavy and gray on this Memorial Day in Indiana. The temperature hovers at nearly 90 degrees and the sound of air conditioners filters through the deepening twilight.
I wrote a passage last week from Texas but was unable to send from my Mom's computer, so here it is now.

Chapter 1.
"As nighttime falls and the quiet lush, hush of darkness overwhelms my parents home, I find myself in my Dad's office in Texas. For those of you who know landmarks, I am north of Houston in a lovely wooded, shaded area known as The Woodlands or Montgomery of Walden or Lake Conroe.

Writing in my Dad's space is so like writing on my own desk. I am surrounded by strands of classical music and his shelves are full of the same literature that I surround myself back home. Just sitting here writing I can see The Best Loved Poems of the American people, Robert Burns, The Limerick, Moris Dictionary of Word and Phrase Origins, The Armada, Roget's College Thesaurus, Shakespeare, Effective Speaking, and Modern French Culinary Art.
Am I not my father's daughter?

I love having these four days with my parents. Being raised the oldest of six children, our house was always a bustle of activity, but being here alone I do not have to share or get up early or hand anything down or clean anything up!

Spending time here is a vacation, a retreat, really. The landscape is lovely and wooded and peppered with flower gardens. We spend hours sitting out in the middle of it all watching the flurry of activity around the bird feeders and nesting houses. We spent the better part of today watching a family of bluebirds. The parents were feeding and gathering most of the day while young beaks and necks found their way to the opening of the bluebird box to receive food and instruction. How soon will they fly? Are they ready to go? I only wish I could see them before I leave in the morning.

Last night Mom and Dad hosted the yearly block party. We spent the day gathering tables and chairs and setting up as neighbors continually dropped by bringing food...and advice. By four in the afternoon the sun dappled behind the oaks and the bloomin' rose of Texas as folks congregated on the lawns. The food was as large and as varied as Texas itself...from margaritas to a strong Texas barbecue sauce and rum pie. The conversation was enlightening...I love meeting new folks...I love meeting friends of my parents.

My parents have been married 58 years....they share breakfast and the paper every morning over a pot of coffee...they work in the garden, cook, tell stories, and hold hands. It is refreshing and beautiful to know that love exists and exists well.

I leave tomorrow morning...with stories and newspaper clippings tucked into my suitcase and my own copy of The Best Loved Poems of the American People. I leave with a promise to travel back soon.

On this balmy night, deep in the heart of Texas, from my Dad's office, another Passage.
Lou Ann"

Chapter 2
A day home from Texas when Adam and Tonya came bursting in at 7 a.m. They had driven all night from Florida for the "wedding week." Tonya's brother, Rob, and my good friend, Alea, were married this week end.

When asked what she wanted for a gift, she shyly smiled and asked if the wedding could be held here in my gardens. I was flattered (of course the gardens are lovely, especially the end of May!) It was later determined that her guest list was a little too large for my cottage garden so it was decided to have the rehearsal dinner here at Twilight on Friday evening. We transformed the entire garden to a scene from Under the Tuscan Sun....twinkle lights, roses, lilacs, peonies....Italian opera music. It was a night Alea and Rob will always remember, and so will I.

My house was full of guests for the wedding weekend as well...that is the way I like it. The wedding was beautiful with dancing and the traditional cake....We all stayed late not wanting the evening to end (I am still sore today from all of the dancing!) When the bridal bouquet was to be thrown, there were only a handful of us waiting for the toss...Alea gave me a wink and it practically fell in my arms! I think it is the only bouquet I have ever caught...I had a crowd cheering behind me! It is nice to have a keepsake of the wedding.

The week was a whirlwind of family dinners, telling stories, decorating Dan undecorating...and washing a load of towels every day.

This morning Adam and Tonya left back to Florida...the remnants from the wedding week are picked up....all that remains are the stories and the bouquet on my writing table.

Chapter 3.
I left my parents last Monday morning. We sat out in the gardens for a final farewell to the bluebird family...just as we were ready to leave...the small bluebirds took flight. One at a time they perched on the edge of the nest and flew. They flew with strength as the parents watched on. We were only feet away and watched in amazement at their passage. It was a wonderful event to share....we then gathered my suitcase and traveled to the airport where I, too, took flight back home.

As my own children left today, I thought of those bluebirds...the strength of their flight, the nervousness of their parents. That is just how life is. We are raised to take flight, and to take it strongly.

My music this week is Andrea Bocelli, my book is The Shipping News by Annie Proulx (winner of the Pulitzer prize) and my poetry is The American Night by Jim Morrison. The poetry book was dropped off yesterday by a friend, he knew I would love it!

The night is heavy and dark. My house is quiet. In two days I leave to spend the summer with Philip...so another chapter, more stories as I trade lives for a couple of months.

So with love and stories, I bid you good night from The House At White Picket Gardens,
Lou Ann

"I read and walked for miles at night along the beach, writing bad blank verse and searching endlessly for someone wonderful who would step out of the darkness and change my life. It never crossed my mind that that person could be me." Anna Quindlen

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